tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post7893243719151028857..comments2024-03-22T04:13:57.274-04:00Comments on Life Music Laughter: White LiarAmethystmoonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08281654875299175221noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-52437482211163101782009-11-30T16:37:18.747-05:002009-11-30T16:37:18.747-05:00I have been in similar situations with good friend...I have been in similar situations with good friends and it is one of the hardest things to do. It typically never has any benefit to the person speaking up and causes them a LOT of pain. But your good heart forces you to do the right thing. It's a hard place to be, but I would want my good friend to do it for me. Why... Because I know my friends, I surround myself with good people and because of this, I would know they had the best interest at heart, no matter how painful the truth can be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-86367468399026681882009-11-25T11:06:02.954-05:002009-11-25T11:06:02.954-05:00To my fellow bloggers: Thanks for the support.
An...To my fellow bloggers: Thanks for the support.<br /><br />Anonymous #1: No clue who you are, obviously someone on FB,but good job at keeping your anonymity. Not sure what you're referencing about hurting/embarassing someone in the past, would love to know. And you're right probably not one sided, but you're wrong about me wanting to keep them apart. You see, I supported them both equally and knew it would be ugly when I felt like one needed some information to make a decision, but felt it was the right thing to do, so losing friends is the sacrifice I made, and none of you can know how hard of a decision it was.<br /><br />anonymous # 2 wish you hadn't put your name, but sorry to lose you in this process, but understand you must do what you must do. Sorry.<br /><br />To all of you: I'm a writer. That's what I do. This is how I deal with what I'm feeling. I really didn't know that so many people knew it was me writing it, but I can't say that I'd change any of it. What you are missing behind the words is what I'm feeling in all this, but that's because none of you have ever truly stopped to get to know the real me.Amethystmoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08281654875299175221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-60917297647317759052009-11-25T10:24:52.242-05:002009-11-25T10:24:52.242-05:00Okay, still haven't gotten an acct to use my n...Okay, still haven't gotten an acct to use my name, but this time it's me RACHEL.<br /><br />I think even though names aren't used, anyone who is anyway involved in your or their lives *knows* what and who you were talking about. <br /><br />And I always try to decode (for lack of a better word) your FB status. They are usually song lyrics (as you LOVE), but they obviously have some meaning behind them, whether it's about something going on in life, or as you said something that may have struck you as funny. With having said that, I read all my friend's status updates and sometimes have to wonder what theirs mean as well! And sometimes theirs may strike me as "are they talking to me?" cuz their quote sounds as if it could have been written by ME! <br /><br />I think at this point we should all step back, breathe, and let everyone try and work on their OWN demons. I know I have more than my fair share right now. <br /><br />I know this blog is yours and you can write whatever you want, but right now the wound is so HUGE, DEEP, and SEEPING this is like throwing great big handfuls of salt in there. <br /><br />I'm begging you for mercy...(I know that's a song lyric-but as usual don't know the song or artist.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-66365724205440670872009-11-25T09:56:14.222-05:002009-11-25T09:56:14.222-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-26982817579644868132009-11-25T07:43:36.733-05:002009-11-25T07:43:36.733-05:00Wow Amethyst Moon, I think you have officially gon...Wow Amethyst Moon, I think you have officially gone too far. I have been a neutral party in this matter from the beginning and have never really made my opinion known but I really feel like I should say something now. Many of us have seen your Facebook status and thought, " wow what is she talking about, is it about me?" I know myself, I have done that a couple times and not out of guilt. I am not in your close circle of friends but I know who you are talking about in this blog and who you were talking about in October, and for the record I do see where it could be a little hurtful. Whatever this couple decides to do is in all honesty none of your business. Let the past be the past and move toward the future. Let them be. One thing I do know for certain is that there were mistakes made on both of their parts, it is not as one sided as you make it out to be. If they are going to work things out there is nothing you are going to be able to do or say to stop them even though it seems like you are trying your hardest. If they choose not to stay together then that is fine as well. They don't need you putting your two cents in where it is clearly not wanted anymore. You know this isn't the first time your words have hurt/embarrassed or even got you into trouble with someone. Maybe it is time to tone it down a little. I feel bad for them and hope they can make it through this, whether it be as a couple or as friends.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-20697881811137972242009-11-24T17:29:12.923-05:002009-11-24T17:29:12.923-05:00I agree with Allyson, even if she spells her name ...I agree with Allyson, even if she spells her name with a y :) Trying to decode your FB status seems a little much. I agree that she was feeling some definite guilt.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07361834893353790529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-1043572939644057732009-11-24T12:43:21.421-05:002009-11-24T12:43:21.421-05:00wow. that friend of yours has some serious issues ...wow. that friend of yours has some serious issues if she feels like she needs to "decode" your FB status messages! wow. you know what they say when you "assume" things, right?<br /><br />hope you are having a great day! :)Ally Wasmundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14932264920378340844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1231715681600976354.post-42901295850151460462009-11-24T11:36:24.929-05:002009-11-24T11:36:24.929-05:00Wow great post! Now I have a few songs stuck in my...Wow great post! Now I have a few songs stuck in my head too!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com