Aloha Friday, Is He Cheating?


Today's question comes from a local morning radio show discussion.

A woman married 3 years notices that her husband isn't paying attention to her when she's talking to him at a restaurant, but instead he's looking around the room, and checking out all the women. This is a behavior change for him. Is he cheating?

My answer: No, you're just boring! Maybe you should pick up on these cues and change the subject. Ask him about something he's interested in and stop making the conversation all about you.

We talk about your skin and the dimples on your chin

The polish on your toes and the run in your hose
And God knows we're gonna talk about your clothes
You know talking about you makes me smile
But every once in awhile...I wanna talk about me
(Toby Keith)


What do you think? Is this a relationship problem? Is he cheating? or looking to?

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